من لم يكن.......

I remember long ago i was watching a movie in TV i can't remember it's name or what was it about i just saw one scene which had the quote saying " من لم يكن الموت له عظة فلا واعظ له" which means that if you don't get experience or wisdom from death then no one can ever help you ... whatever, through the past days i keep recalling this quote cause my grandmother's death was like a turning point for me maybe because i saw the end of a human the grave and all that stuff and i realized that many things inside and outside of me i need to change before going there ... to the place of no return